Looking over the glasses

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In the films of the 1920s and 1930s, looking over glasses was often used to depict critically or skeptical characters, such as teachers in English schools. Today, many wear reading-only glasses. In this case, it is more convenient for a person to look at the interlocutor over the glasses than to take pictures, and then put on his glasses again. However, the person to whom such a look is thrown will most likely feel at ease. The habit of looking over glasses can be costly, because the interlocutor after such a look often puts his hands on his chest, crosses his legs and adjusts negatively. If you wear glasses, take them off when you speak and wear them again when you listen. This will not only calm the interlocutor, but also allow you to control the course of the conversation. The interlocutor will immediately realize that by removing the glasses, you show that you want to take the floor, and putting them on will give you the opportunity to speak to him, and will act accordingly.
  Looking over the glasses
Looking over glasses can scare anyone

In contact lenses, your pupils appear dilated, and your eyes are shiny. Because of this, you look more soft and sensual. This is ideal for informal communication, but in a business setting can lead to a real disaster. This is especially important for women. A woman can struggle to convince her partner of the validity of her own judgments, but, enchanted by the wet sheen of her eyes, he will not hear a single word of her.
Wearing colored or dark glasses in a business setting is completely unacceptable. In informal communication, such accessories also raise certain suspicions. If you want to make it clear that you understand everything perfectly, you need transparent glasses in the frame. A color and dark glass leave for vacation.
 
created: 2014-09-29
updated: 2021-03-13
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