Imitate until you really learn

Lecture



If you don’t put your hands up to your face and talk using the signals of openness, does this mean that you can safely lie and no one will guess about it? Not always, because even in an open position, a lying person sweats palms, cheeks redden and pupils constrict. The most experienced liars are those who can fully enter the role and believe in their own lies. This is best done by professional actors, and the best of them are honored with an Oscar. Although we do not at all believe that you will frankly lie, but still we advise you to practice the positive signals that were described earlier. They should be your second kind. Positive signals will serve you faithfully your whole life.
Scientists have proven that it is possible to imitate certain actions in order to master them fully. They conducted experiments on birds. In many species of birds, the dominant males have darker plumage. Dark birds are the first to get food and females. The researchers took weaker particles with light plumage and dyed them in dark colors. Thus, a weak bird, as it were, declared to the others that it is dominant. But her deception was immediately revealed, as the painted birds continued to behave timidly and sent subordinate signals of the body language. During another experience, birds were not only stained, but testosterone was also given to them. Under the action of the hormone, the behavior of the birds changed. At this time, "liars" no one guessed, because they behaved in accordance with the color of their own feathers. This proves once again that if you carefully rehearse the role of a confident, competent person, you will be able to make the right impression at the interview and people around you will take you seriously.

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Body language

Terms: Body language