Creating a normal atmosphere

Lecture



Studies of synchronicity in human body movements show that people who experience the same emotions, tuned to the same wavelength and have reached mutual understanding, begin to unconsciously copy the movements and expressions of each other. Synchronicity strengthens relationships between people, and this is completely understandable. Being in the womb, we function synchronously with her body. Therefore, it can be said that mirroring is a natural condition for humans.
When a man and a woman are in the early stages of a courtship ritual, they often perform synchronous movements. Like in dance. For example, when a woman has a mouthful of food, a man gets wet corners of the mouth. When a man starts a sentence, the woman finishes it for him. When a woman has premenstrual syndrome, a man pulls on chocolate. When she has gases, he emits them.
When a person says that he feels comfortable in the interlocutor’s society, he thereby unconsciously confirms the presence of specularity and synchrony in his behavior. Many people do not like to eat alone in a restaurant, and this happens out of fear of falling out of synchronicity with other visitors. When people order a waiter, they always ask their companions what they ordered. Thus, they seem to be trying to synchronize their order with the order of friends. Quiet music is exceptionally beneficial for lovers during a date - music allows them to synchronize their actions with each other.
  Creating a normal atmosphere
Copying the gestures and looks of another person shows cohesion and readiness to speak with one voice, without dragging the blanket over.

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Body language

Terms: Body language