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Mike is a heartthrob who will never be embarrassed at the sight of a girl. Mike can come to a party where there are many strangers, and in ten minutes he will be in friendly relations with one of the girls. Half an hour later he would pull her out of the group and take her home. Perhaps this will be his house, perhaps - hers. Everything will depend on whose house will be closer.
How does Mike manage this? Other guys who spent half the evening picking up courage before approaching the girl are amazed how Mike takes the bull by the horns. They cannot understand how he does it.
Ask the girls. They will shrug their shoulders and answer: “I don’t know. It probably radiates something. I accept his signals, respond to them, and before I can figure out what's what, he already takes the initiative in his hands ... "
Mike is not handsome. He dresses pretty well, but this is not his main charm. It seems that Mike has a sixth sense. If there is an available girl in the room, Mike will certainly find her, or she will find him.
What does Mike have?
Although he is not gifted with a brilliant appearance, he has something much more important for such meetings. Mike intuitively speaks body language and uses it in an ideal way. When Mike enters the room, he automatically conveys the message: “Women! I am a man. I'm at your service. I am aggressive and experienced. ” Then he takes aim and transmits signals to the chosen object: “I am interested in you”. I like you. There is something attractive about you, and I would like to know what it is. ”
Look at Mike at work. Observe how he makes contact and signals his arrival. Each of us has our friend “Mike”, and we all envy his abilities. What body language does he use?
Mike's attractiveness consists of many components. First of all - his appearance. Not his natural, which is quite ordinary, but the one that Mike created to transmit his signals. If you look closely at Mike, you’ll see how charged he is with sexuality.
A knowledgeable woman will tell you: "Of course, Mike is sexy." But in what sense?
If you ask this woman, she can say: “There is something in him. Something like an aura. ”
In fact, nothing so vague like the aura around Mike is not observed. There is no doubt that the way Mike dresses, the type of trousers that he prefers, his jackets, shirts and ties, the way he combs, the length of his tanks - all this forms the first impression of him. But more important is how Mike stands and moves.
One of the women described his postures and movements as "easy grace." The man who knows Mike well was not so elegant in his choice of words. “It's a greasy type,” he said of Mike. As a result, we got a disturbing and exciting image that attracts a woman, and a repulsive image that causes contempt and hostility in a man.
created: 2015-12-25
updated: 2021-03-13
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